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Does This IEP Make Sense? What should I ask for?

IEP goals, services, placement, progress reports—post what you’re being told and ask if it actually makes sense.

  1. Started by Laura,

    My school district is suggesting a Facilitator. How is the facilitator chosen? Would I have a say in this? I'm in Ohio.

  2. Started by Smiley74,

    What educational impact would/could be seen/linked to LPT3 subtest scores indicating difficulties in the areas of categorization and generating attributes of common nouns? Also demonstrated slow processing speed throughout the assessment for formal and informal activities.

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  3. Started by Christi Blunt,

    I’m a special needs advocate. I have a client who called an IEP meeting. Does the parent legally have to provide an agenda prior to the meeting to the school? Thanks in advance.

  4. Started by Anj,

    Hi all, my 10th grade daughter has selective mutism/ social anxiety and has had an IEP for years. She has made much progress and speaks to many teachers and peers freely but not all. She is struggling in algebra 2 despite the math teacher being wonderful and helping her some days before school and again alter in the day during advisory period. She spends a lot of time each night trying to get everything completed and has started to have headaches and TMJ due to stress and anxiety over math. Yesterday at the annual IEP meeting we asked for a modification/reduction of the amount of work she needs to complete each day. The SPED director was resistant to this and s…

  5. Started by Christi Blunt,

    A 15 year old was suspended from school with an IEP for 1.5 days. Can we legally request the video of the incident?

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  6. Started by Liams Dad,

    I know there is likely a variable answer. backgound - Son turning 3 in two weeks - transitioning out of Early Learning Services into School District and now eligible to join a Peer Program of NT / ND students. He is Level 2 ASD - hyperlexic, great academics - it being a Covid timed birth has had little or no social interaction and his support needs are on the Social, Emotional requirements in addition to the regular Toddler pre-school support needs. He will be attending 2.5 hrs per day for 4 days each week. I prepared for the IEP using A.D.I.O.S process and using his diagnosis and SD eligibility report and from that I had his areas of support Adapti…

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  7. Started by LisaS,

    My son’s school (a charter) just asked to move his annual IEP meeting from the end of the year to later this month because he moved up to a more advanced ELA class and is “an Armstrong student” I will ask the school but would like to hear from experts here, too.

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  8. Started by Jess555,

    Is there a CSE meeting to discuss the FBA/BIP to be implemented ahead of the Annual CSE meeting? Or are both implemented in the Annual meeting?

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  9. Started by Nittimom,

    Hello, my child is 8 years old. She is a gestalt learner. She is verbal but Has a significant functional communication speech delay. For example after saying hi she can’t continue a conversation with an adult or her peers. We have to prompt her to say hi. She struggles in expressing what she feels specially emotional needs. She can’t describe things. Ex of you ask: tell me about mom. Of what’s your favorite food. She does tell about her needs like if she wants iPad pillows or sleep. Sometimes if she wants to go somewhere. You ask what is this , she will tell. she gets 20 minutes of speech therapy twice a week , one in group and the other one individual. I …

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  10. Started by Sedison01,

    My son is currently on an IEP. A little background. He started school in a different district and I fought tooth and nail to get him an IEP, for two years it was fighting that school system. We moved to a different district and amazing things happened. My son was placed in a special program called "Blast" and went from having very difficult behaviors to being completely mainstreamed with the help of accommodations. Now we start 5th grade and we had to change his school because of a move and the new school offered his 'Blast' program (This is the only district that offers this and it is ABA based). At any rate his new school was late (6 weeks into school and they didn't ha…

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  11. Started by Isha Sign,

    My son is non verbal 9 year old kid goes to a public school. He is in self constraint classroom and has an IEP. He can not communicate and share about school. I get a log file from teacher but that just have little info like he did "writing , wh questions etc etc". I understand it is hard to write everyday more than this for each kid. But I struggle to know what exactly he does in school. His academic performance is way to less in school as compared to at home. I fail to understand what bothers him. As per school he gets all accommodations , But I don't really know what is missing. I sent them recordings of how well my son does at home but all they say is they see a very …

  12. Started by LeahA,

    (NC) Hello, I enrolled my son back in school last Aug (9th gr) after 3 years of homeschooling. The high school did a reevaluation & a review of records from his 5th grade IEP and determined he is eligible for services (OHI-Adhd). The school did not do any assessments even though his triennial was technically over-due at that time. It was a bit confusing process with him having a 3 year homeschool transition back to high school/public school. I realize now that I should've pushed for new assessments back in Aug. Yesterday, I requested assessments in all areas of suspected disability. I just feel like we are constantly missing something. He has struggle…

  13. A year ago my son qualified for services for emotional disturbance (pervasive mood of depression at school) and ADHD. He also qualifies for speech and OT services. He is currently in third grade. He is behind in his writing and spelling skills, but previous evaluations did not indicate that he has a writing disability. His current goals focus on Social Skills, Speech and OT. He does not have academic goals. His IEP is coming up. Can I request an academic goal around writing (developing ideas within writing; applying correct grammar, capitalization and punctuation; applying grade-level spelling patterns in written work)? I believe that his ADHD and emotio…

  14. Started by Lauren2677,

    My 9yo has an allotment for extended time in her recommendations from a Neuropsychologist as well as listed in her IEP. There is no language about the percentage of time increase. Her 3rd grade class has daily timed math fast facts. If she doesnt get it completed a new sheet comes home to do. She came home from school with several layers of skin chewed off her thumb. I addressed the school re the anxiety and the best they offered was to "give her another Math sheet to work on while everyone else is completing their daily fast facts, then send her fast facts home to complete. I have recommended partial transcribing (also listed in neuropsych report) and they refuse to do t…

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  15. Started by sluh,

    I'm being told the school wants to declassify my daughter (who has a physical genetic condition) due to the fact that her condition "doesn't impact her academic needs" -- IE. she gets good grades. I'm trying to research my rights for OT, PT and functional skills, etc.

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  16. Can a school district deny eligibility if their own objective data shows that 2/3 IEP goals have not been met? Their progress reporting admits that my son hasn't been given the opportunities to work on these goals, but they essentially dismissed the lack of meeting these goals by giving all these anecdotes about "what they're seeing" when denying eligibility. Also--does anyone have the ability to provide a second opinion scoring of a WIAT III essay composition (word count and thematic organization SS)? I'm just looking for a casual idea of what the SS would be from someone outside the district to help determine how hard I should push back on this. They said that o…

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  17. My son's annual meeting is coming up and it will be facilitated. I'm totally confused about some things that are going on... We had a meeting prior to Christmas and the school team agreed to evaluate my son for OT services. We are concerned because my son seems to get overwhelmed at school and is frequenlty putting his head down. He doesn't participate and/or complete work in several classes. I received a draft IEP and it contains a summary of what was done by the OT. She interviewed my son's case manager, reviewed information from an IEE, and gave my son an Adolescent/Adult Sensory Profile. As I understand it, the Adolescent/Adult Sensory Profile is a self questiona…

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  18. Started by Christi Blunt,

    Good morning, I have a case where the initial evaluation was started 4/28/2022 and completed 10/6/2022. The child didn't qualify for services even though most of his T-scores on the BASC3 was above 70 so in the clinically significant area. The child also has a diagnosis of Autism, ADHD, and OCD. I was informed yesterday in a meeting we can no longer use the initial evaluation to try to get services. The school has to perform a whole new evaluation. This is in the state of Missouri. Is this true? The evaluation is not even a year old. Any suggestions? This was a very heated meeting with the Director of Special Education. I just don't want to be pushed around…

  19. Started by Christi Blunt,

    I just received an email for the school psychologist in Missouri stating she cannot send any documents of the child (PWN and RED) to any outside agencies/advocates in an email. The mother signed a release form from the school allowing myself access to all information. Is this true? We have a very heated 2 hr meeting yesterday. I just want to know if the psychologist is playing hard ball and making things more difficult. Thanks. Christi

  20. My son qualifies under OHI, but to get certain goals added to his IEP I need to show his disability has adverse impact on his performance in those areas. What kind of data is helpful for this? Classroom assessments? Standardized assessments? If he fails every test on a specific topic, but does well enough on other topics that he passes the class, can his passing grade be used to disprove educational impact? Specifically I think he needs goals in mathematical problem solving and organization of essays and research papers. I can see that he cannot do either of these things well and his grades on any assignment containing them are very poor (D's and F's), but he has eno…

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  21. Started by StacieT,

    CA - IEP is on Thursday. The team proposes a new behavior goal (no BIP or behavior assessment has been completed outside of teacher observation) for "anger/frustration tolerance". It is always very clear why he is frustrated/angry. Baseline is: "when modeled by teacher or adult, (son) can use appropriate words to express himself when he is upset and frustrated or interacting with a peer/adult that is appropriate 5 out of 5 days of the week as measured by teacher observation." The proposed goal is: son "will use appropriate words to express himself with no more than 1 teacher prompt when he is upset and frustrated or interacting with a peer…

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  22. Started by Smiley74,

    What is the Pennsylvania threshold for discrepancy qualification for school speech services? Can the discrepancy be in only a subtest area or does it have to be an overall discrepancy? Is there some sort of equivalent age norm discrepancy in additional to standard deviations or percentile threshold? I was given the age norm discrepancy in terms of being over two years below child’s actual age.

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  23. Hello all, I honestly never thought I would need to ask this question because for the past 13 years things have run relatively smoothly with our district and schools. A couple things to know going into this: 1) I would prefer not to have to bring a lawyer into the mix but if I need to, I will. 2) My son has been attending school in this district since he was 3 and has had an IEP the entire time. 3) The principal is new...she started in September of 2022 and this is her first year as a principal. This is also only her third year with the district. 4) I work for the district as an Instructional Aide. ****After practically writing a book on this I erased it and dec…

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  24. Started by HighSchoolParent,

    I just noticed an error in my child's IEP. One of his WISC-V index scores is 78, which has a descriptive category of "very low." The school psychologist who did the evaluation wrote the correct descriptive category in her report, but everywhere in his IEP and diagnostic summary report, the descriptive category says "low average." Maybe it is a typo, but his school has a long history of denying his disability and this feels like more of the same. I wish I had noticed this before I signed his IEP, but I was focused more on his goals and accommodations. I try to keep my communication with the school to what is absolutely necessary. I don't want to nitpick every lit…

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  25. Started by lclark,

    Sorry about the length, but I wasn't sure what to leave out. We are in NY. My daughter spent 2 very traumatic years in junior high school. She had an IEP due to SLD in math and writing, along with ADHD and an anxiety disorder. In the summer between 7th & 8th grade she was diagnosed with ASD. She was supposed to get accommodations for organization, breaking down assignments,etc and modifications for the workload in math and writing. I had battled the school both years because she was not receiving the accommodations and would end up scrambling at the end of every marking period to make up missed work, which added to her anxiety. She would frequently shut down and…

    • 5 replies
    • 3.3k views

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