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Does This IEP Make Sense? What should I ask for?

IEP goals, services, placement, progress reports—post what you’re being told and ask if it actually makes sense.

  1. Hi. I wrote a longer question below but didn't get any suggestions so maybe it was too long! Basically I would appreciate guidance on when it is ok to lose an IEP (7th grade boy with ADHD)? I still think he needs emotional social support (meet regularly with school psych) and the school wants to exit him (after eval) as they say he is accessing the general curriculum well. Can an iep have only social emotional support goals and no academic ones? Thanks

  2. Started by Isabel,

    Recently an inappropriate comment by a staff member was made at my IEP meeting. Admin was present and heard it, and it was also recorded. I also emailed admin to let them know I wasn’t okay with it. Admin set up a meeting to clarify what was said and staff member wanted to apologize. One day before the meeting I was informed that staff member was bringing a union rep. I declined to meet in this way as I believe it to be inappropriate to have a union rep present to discuss a matter that occurred during my child’s IEP. Can union reps even be allowed do this? Isn’t this a FERPA issue?

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  3. Started by Slightlybossy,

    Is there anything I can put in the IEP to keep my son safe from others special needs kids that hit? This has been a huge issue and the school has not taken my requests for a health and wellness plan or any accommodations to help keep him safe. I just keep being told it’s a staffing issue, not an IEP one. My son has developed vomit induced anxiety because of this on going problem. Its only 3 kids lately but I feel because they have special needs to my son isn’t getting any help. I should point out the have moved him classes 4 times to try and stop the issues but then move the problem kids into the same class a week later. He was in all day special ed but I was told the onl…

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  4. Started by Rachel,

    Hello! My son has a 1:1 aide per his IEP. If his aide is absent and they cannot find a substitute, then he is not allowed to go to school. Is this typical for a school to just say your child has to stay home at the last minute? Should this situation be covered in his IEP? (Perhaps to point to the need for compensatory education if X days are missed?) Thanks!

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  5. Started by Pippy2121,

    My child’s teacher recently shared that one of the SLPs at the school resigned and that my child is not receiving the speech/language service time outlined in her IEP (the two SLPs were previously covering the service time). I have not received any formal notification from the school of this and have received no communication from the SLPs this school year other than a short check-in call that I requested. Should the school be tracker her service time? How do I address this? Are we eligible for compensatory services?

  6. I was looking over my child's WISC-V report and saw something that looked odd. The report described what each index measures, then my child's results. When describing the visual-spatial index it says that according to research, the visual-spatial index does not have a large role in academics. It seems odd to understate the importance of an entire WISC index. All of my research shows that it does play a large role in academics, especially in the upper grades. Is this a typical statement on a student's WISC report, or is it specific to my child's school?

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  7. Started by lmjess,

    Can a school district 'unofficially' change my son's schedule when its convenient to them, even though he has an IEP and that is not his placement? Backstory: my 13 yr old son (2E, autism, anxiety, adhd, dmdd) is currently serving an inschool suspension until Thursday. But the district wants to keep him self-contained 1:1 with special education teacher Friday as well but not document it as a suspension (probably because he's at 9.5 days now). Self contained is not my son's placement. And they have done this several times before this school year for their convenience without documenting a placement change. What do I say to the administration when they do this?

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  8. I'd like to request for "safety assessments" for during bus arrival, bus departure, recess, and school hallways because my daughter elopes. Also during fire drills because my daughter freezes sometimes instead of leaving the building. Is "crisis training" part of school safety assessments? School may do the bare minimum but wanted to have an idea of what's involved in school safety assessments and put in an effective request.

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  9. My 7th-grade son has autism and ADHD. He has an issue with blurting out during class and school events. Blurting is explicitly discussed in his IEP in the Present Levels section and as an IEP goal. He is receiving direct instruction to decrease his blurting through his IEP. He is also receiving social and conversational skills training through Easter Seals. The assistant principal called me this morning and told me that my son repeatedly blurted out during an informational session about the upcoming 7th grade overnight camp. He said that my son's blurting behavior is disruptive and "willful" and that he might not be able to go to camp. He says that we need to have a …

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  10. When facing educational assessments for IEPs, what tests actually help determine what will help guide goals and services for Middle School kids with Hyperlexia? Our son is not great at standardized tests, so these are not a great source of present levels or even cognitive functioning?!

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  11. Started by MamaM,

    Hello- I'm looking for a little insight into whether I should just give up here or pursue the issue. My son (8- diagnosed with autism and generalized anxiety) has gone to the school's ESY program for the past three years, since preschool. He is doing quite well academically (on grade level). He's made a lot of progress socially this year, however he still struggles a lot to converse with other kids and doesn't have any real friends. He also has frequent crying episodes at school and struggles with emotional regulation. I got a phone call a couple of weeks ago from the case manager to inform me that he "does not qualify" for ESY this year because he's "meeting all hi…

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  12. Started by AJ1,

    My kiddo has an IEP ,is autistic and has ODD, and in behavior ed. He recently got charges for a fight in the bathroom. I belive they said like 11 kids were charged. My kid was allegedly (for legal purposes) involved. Apparently this kid had called him a fa**ot. Anyway, the whole reason he is in behavior Ed is to avoid things like this. He had 3 days OSS. I belive this is his first OSS but has had ISS before. Now he's got an intake for probation. He's 15 and wants to be a police officer or join the military and I'm he's not going to be able to do what he wants to if he keeps getting in trouble. All of his grades are also failing. He feels like he can't make a comeba…

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  13. Started by Ktina,

    New member here! : ) Our 7th grade son has had an IEP since Kindergarten, has multiple challenges our local school district can't handle. We have an agreement they will agree to placing him there as long as he shows progress? He has mastered his last 2 IEP goals, loves it there and has made progress in our eyes. How would any of you define progress? Thanks in advance.

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  14. Started by bbann,

    Hello, I have a 13 year old daughter with Down syndrome and her triennial IEP meeting is coming up. These are always stressful as I never seem to advocate enough for her... Anyway, she is currently on a life skills curriculum which I am mostly ok with, I just want to be sure that I am doing the right thing for her. She's had speech in her IEP throughout elementary and now middle school but is still has a limited vocabulary and is not always understood by others. She can write 3-4 letters of her name legibly and can write most her her numbers 1-10, her 5 and 9 are always backwards and she can't seem to get it to click how to turn them around. I read on another post on her…

  15. Hi All, nice to meet you! What can a parent do when a PS District refuses to produce the specific student education records the parent requested? Even when parents asked for every single record the PS district plays games, refuses to produce them electronically via email, or gives parents non responsive records like: only produced correspondence parent themselves sent to PS/District or were cc'd on while refusing to give intra school correspondences or out of district correspondences etc discussing that student gives select or minute amount of school health unit or other student area educational records withholding majority claims that recor…

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  16. Started by Megan,

    Hello https://twemoji.maxcdn.com/2/72x72/1f642.png I’m not sure the correct forum to put this in, so I’m gonna put it here and in the IEP & 504 forum as well. Last year I requested a formal in writing full comprehensive evaluation. At the time my son had an ADHD diagnosis from a medical professional. They denied my son eligibility following a psychological, Sensory OT evaluations, which I just recently found out stating that he did not meet eligibility, because there was no “academic impact”. That is exactly the reason for denial written in the eligibility report. His grades are good. Over the summer we had him reevaluated by a psychologist. Sinc…

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  17. Started by Elizabeth D,

    Hello, I am helping a friend who lives in California. She requested a PWN after the last IEP where her requests for a 1 on 1 aide and FBA to create a BIP (they said they could create one with "informal data") were denied. The IS sent her the PWN and the Assessment Plan (they agreed to a full evaluation because it has been almost 3 years since his ETR and he is now in kindergarten). There are 3 pages. The first two are labeled Assessment Plan and Prior Written Notice but page 1 is the PWN and page 2 is the Assessment Plan. Page 3 says Assessment Plan Signature Page. Should there be a signature page for the PWN? She agrees with the assessment plan other than th…

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  18. Started by Julie Cole,

    Hello, I am seeking insight to a legal question to understand what kind of ground I have to stand on. My son, Matthew, has Hyperlexia, but is not on the autism spectrum. He qualifies for services under SLI, OHI, and AUT. Think gestalt language learner, pragmatic and receptive language challenges. Matthew is a 6th grader (middle school) and has ELA and Math offered in a "directed" setting --taught by ed specialist, smaller class size, slower pace, grade level standards, accommodated. He's THRIVING. Independent, keeping up, managing assignments, completing work---doing it all with very little home help. His other 2 core academic classes, Science and Social Science, a…

  19. Hello, My Child recently took a test. As per the IEP my child was given extra time to complete the test. The teacher told my child that she was taking too long and that it was unfair for her to get extra time when other children without an IEP did not get as much time. She said she planned to talk with my Child's case manager about the extra time. I plan to write an email to this teacher so she is aware that her comment was not appropriate and unacceptable. What do you recommend I say in the email? Who else if anyone, should I copy on the email (such as Case manager, LEA, etc...)? If it makes a difference we are in PA. Also, is it appropriate for me to as…

  20. Hi, I'm preparing for my ASK for either writing software, instruction, scaffolding (or all 3) for my 14yr old incoming 9th grade who is having issues in multiple areas of writing including essay writing (organization, expounding on ideas, complex sentences, syntax, grammar). We have some tools in place (AT, Grammarly) already but he's been apprehensive to embrace. As part of my ask, I'm looking for software (perhaps mind mapping software) that would help prompt him via like a text box like "enter in your topic sentence) then prompt for details and a conclusion. Then allow him to hit a button and it combines into a paragraph form which his AT tools can be used to revis…

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  21. Started by Lesly Nieto,

    Hello i live in Tennessee and have an autistic child who is 8 years old we have an IEP coming up and I really want and believe he needs an aid he is in the general setting classroom part time and special Ed setting whenever he is in the general setting his teachers have stated he does not listen nor pay attention and due his work unless they have the chance to sit beside him I have stated this before in our last IEP and no one really said anything it was shrugged off I didn’t push I felt let’s see what happens but I feel they are going to tell me no due to staff shortages they are having which I understand or they will make me feel like his getting more services than any …

  22. My 3rd grade son was recently diagnosed with dyslexia, dysgraphia and disorder of written expression by neuropsych through an IEE. He attends a small, private school. The public district uses Wilson Fundations for Tier 1 intervention, with review of the Fundations material coming through the resource room. Neither teacher is Wilson certified. I've been told that the CSE isn't allowed to name a specific intervention program (OG, Wilson, Barton, etc). I'd like him to receive tutoring at his private school. Is that justified? What would I need to demonstrate in order to support such a request?

  23. Started by Laura,

    The school team devised an elaborate note card system for data collection. My son is being tasked with this data collection. I’m not sure how to address this with the team. Background: my son has significant executive functioning deficits. At his last IEP meeting a couple weeks ago, his executive functioning goal was changed to “When provided fading supports (visual, verbal, gestural), student will use his executive function skills to complete academic tasks in the classroom and tutoring room, for 80% accuracy, over three consecutive weeks, as measured by running records.” The objectives for this goal are broken down to initiating, sequencing, executing, and prioriti…

  24. I was hoping for some advice last IEP meeting I wanted my parental concerns on my sons IEP and I was told “at this time we are only putting down concerns if it’s happening frequently” at the time it wasn’t so I shrugged it off though my gut told me to fight back on that I’m not the type of person to do well with confrontation specially going in by myself with 10+ people.. IEP meeting is right around the corner and I want my concerns on their what can I say and do if they push back on it and what could be a reason they would push back on writing down my parental concerns any advice is appreciated

  25. Started by Christine M.,

    Last week I had an IEP meeting for my son. When talk turned to ESY I said that I wanted the district to send him to a specific summer camp that focuses on social skills. The student services rep said she needed to talk to her boss as she wasn't certain on the district's policy on this. Now this rep asked for me to have a meeting with her and her boss (executive director of student services) to discuss my request. Should I take this meeting with the IEP team present? I am afraid that anything said in this meeting will be outside of the jurisdiction of an IEP meeting and I won't be able to have things on the record. I'm not even certain this is appropriate. Any advic…

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